Love, Friendship & Infatuation......

Well whenever two people of the opposite sex are concerned I have always wondered the difference between these 3 things. The problem is I don't understand Love & infatuation that much and many in the society never think a boy and a girl can just be good friends. As the title of my blog suggests I don't think there is anything called true love. Everything comes because none of us can be independent.Maybe I don't believe in love that much because I have seen men marrying even after a divorce and women dating tonnes of guys before settling for a rich one. I don't deny that love doesn't exists but that they are too rare. More than half the people who say they are in love split up. Just dunno how you can break up with a person you love so much in a matter of seconds. The only love i believe in, which never wavers is for that of your mother and in some cases of your father and siblings too. The rest is just for the society and stuff. Marriage is yet another thing which I hate. It makes no sense when you promise to spend your life with a person and then after a few months or years as the case maybe you can just walk inside a court and get a divorce.
Of the three things the worst is Infatuation. You just like a person for the way he or she looks at first sight??? Highly amusing. Well I am not any better. I do like beautiful girls known or not just like any other normal teenage guy. The thing is I don't follow those teenage instincts of mine normally at least. Let me tell you this, I have a seen a guy who has proposed to girl like a million times and the worst thing is he got rejected every single time and then he changed so drastically that he proposed to the girl's close friend.
Friendship-The one thing you can always count on. Many may consider love to be greater but the thing is friendship live on forever. There is no end to friendship , no divorce, no ceremonies....nothing....There is nothing to hide in friendship, no pressure from the society, no parental pressure etc. We are in the 21st century and yet many people can't accept the fact that there can be a genuine friendship between a boy and a girl. If u are close to a girl then it means that you are going out with her. I say to hell with all these beliefs. A friend is the only one who helps you no matter what situation you are in. They don't care who thinks what.
So what i want to say exactly is that long live all the friendships in the world. Don't look for your true love by going out with many and pls there are other attributes to girls other than their hot looks.

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

awesome buddy! cool. ' sharat' ish attitude! feels great to be your friend!!! lifestyle pending yet! lol:)

Anonymous said...

i really love ths 1!!!

absolutely..i thnk v are the best examples of a guy/gal relationship!...6 whole yrs n jus frens!..cheers to it!!...n i can assure it cannot go anythin beyond it!!!...looks like yu ve dedicated ths to me!!!...lol...

good 1 da!

Sharat Chandrasekhar said...

no need of any assurance i am very much confident on tat fact.....

Anonymous said...

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